[SPARK-5922][GraphX]: Add diff(other: RDD[VertexId, VD]) in VertexRDD

Changed method invocation of 'diff' to match that of 'innerJoin' and 'leftJoin' from VertexRDD[VD] to RDD[(VertexId, VD)]. This change maintains backwards compatibility and better unifies the VertexRDD methods to match each other.

Author: Brennon York <brennon.york@capitalone.com>

Closes #4733 from brennonyork/SPARK-5922 and squashes the following commits:

e800f08 [Brennon York] fixed merge conflicts
b9274af [Brennon York] fixed merge conflicts
f86375c [Brennon York] fixed minor include line
398ddb4 [Brennon York] fixed merge conflicts
aac1810 [Brennon York] updated to aggregateUsingIndex and added test to ensure that method works properly
2af0b88 [Brennon York] removed deprecation line
753c963 [Brennon York] fixed merge conflicts and set preference to use the diff(other: VertexRDD[VD]) method
2c678c6 [Brennon York] added mima exclude to exclude new public diff method from VertexRDD
93186f3 [Brennon York] added back the original diff method to sustain binary compatibility
f18356e [Brennon York] changed method invocation of 'diff' to match that of 'innerJoin' and 'leftJoin' from VertexRDD[VD] to RDD[(VertexId, VD)]