## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This change add an optional argument to `SparkContext.cancelStage()` and `SparkContext.cancelJob()` functions, which allows the caller to provide exact reason  for the cancellation.

## How was this patch tested?

Adds unit test.

Author: Ala Luszczak <ala@databricks.com>

Closes #16887 from ala/cancel.