[SPARK-14091][CORE] Improve performance of SparkContext.getCallSite()

Currently SparkContext.getCallSite() makes a call to Utils.getCallSite().

```
 private[spark] def getCallSite(): CallSite = {
    val callSite = Utils.getCallSite()
    CallSite(
      Option(getLocalProperty(CallSite.SHORT_FORM)).getOrElse(callSite.shortForm),
      Option(getLocalProperty(CallSite.LONG_FORM)).getOrElse(callSite.longForm)
    )
  }
```
However, in some places utils.withDummyCallSite(sc) is invoked to avoid expensive threaddumps within getCallSite(). But Utils.getCallSite() is evaluated earlier causing threaddumps to be computed.

This can have severe impact on smaller queries (that finish in 10-20 seconds) having large number of RDDs.

Creating this patch for lazy evaluation of  getCallSite.

No new test cases are added. Following standalone test was tried out manually. Also, built entire spark binary and tried with few SQL queries in TPC-DS  and TPC-H in multi node cluster
```
def run(): Unit = {
    val conf = new SparkConf()
    val sc = new SparkContext("local[1]", "test-context", conf)
    val start: Long = System.currentTimeMillis();
    val confBroadcast = sc.broadcast(new SerializableConfiguration(new Configuration()))
    Utils.withDummyCallSite(sc) {
      //Large tables end up creating 5500 RDDs
      for(i <- 1 to 5000) {
       //ignore nulls in RDD as its mainly for testing callSite
        val testRDD = new HadoopRDD(sc, confBroadcast, None, null,
          classOf[NullWritable], classOf[Writable], 10)
      }
    }
    val end: Long = System.currentTimeMillis();
    println("Time taken : " + (end - start))
  }

def main(args: Array[String]): Unit = {
    run
  }
```

Author: Rajesh Balamohan <rbalamohan@apache.org>

Closes #11911 from rajeshbalamohan/SPARK-14091.