[SPARK-3040] pick up a more proper local ip address for Utils.findLocalIpAddress method

Short version: NetworkInterface.getNetworkInterfaces returns ifs in reverse order compared to ifconfig output. It may pick up ip address associated with tun0 or virtual network interface.
See [SPARK_3040](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-3040) for more detail

Author: Ye Xianjin <advancedxy@gmail.com>

Closes #1946 from advancedxy/SPARK-3040 and squashes the following commits:

f33f6b2 [Ye Xianjin] add windows support
087a785 [Ye Xianjin] reverse the Networkinterface.getNetworkInterfaces output order to get a more proper local ip address.

core/src/main/scala/org/apache/spark/util/Utils.scala

@@ -530,7 +530,12 @@ private[spark] object Utils extends Logging {
       if (address.isLoopbackAddress) {
         // Address resolves to something like 127.0.1.1, which happens on Debian; try to find
         // a better address using the local network interfaces
-        for (ni <- NetworkInterface.getNetworkInterfaces) {
+        // getNetworkInterfaces returns ifs in reverse order compared to ifconfig output order
+        // on unix-like system. On windows, it returns in index order.
+        // It's more proper to pick ip address following system output order.
+        val activeNetworkIFs = NetworkInterface.getNetworkInterfaces.toList
+        val reOrderedNetworkIFs = if (isWindows) activeNetworkIFs else activeNetworkIFs.reverse
+        for (ni <- reOrderedNetworkIFs) {
           for (addr <- ni.getInetAddresses if !addr.isLinkLocalAddress &&
                !addr.isLoopbackAddress && addr.isInstanceOf[Inet4Address]) {
             // We've found an address that looks reasonable!