[SPARK-20318][SQL] Use Catalyst type for min/max in ColumnStat for ease of estimation

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Currently when estimating predicates like col > literal or col = literal, we will update min or max in column stats based on literal value. However, literal value is of Catalyst type (internal type), while min/max is of external type. Then for the next predicate, we again need to do type conversion to compare and update column stats. This is awkward and causes many unnecessary conversions in estimation.

To solve this, we use Catalyst type for min/max in `ColumnStat`. Note that the persistent format in metastore is still of external type, so there's no inconsistency for statistics in metastore.

This pr also fixes a bug for boolean type in `IN` condition.

## How was this patch tested?

The changes for ColumnStat are covered by existing tests.
For bug fix, a new test for boolean type in IN condition is added

Author: wangzhenhua <wangzhenhua@huawei.com>

Closes #17630 from wzhfy/refactorColumnStat.