[SPARK-19155][ML] Make family case insensitive in GLM

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?
This is a supplement to PR #16516 which did not make the value from `getFamily` case insensitive. Current tests of poisson/binomial glm with weight fail when specifying 'Poisson' or 'Binomial', because the calculation of `dispersion` and `pValue` checks the value of family retrieved from `getFamily`
```
model.getFamily == Binomial.name || model.getFamily == Poisson.name
```

## How was this patch tested?
Update existing tests for 'Poisson' and 'Binomial'.

yanboliang felixcheung imatiach-msft

Author: actuaryzhang <actuaryzhang10@gmail.com>

Closes #16675 from actuaryzhang/family.