[SPARK-13436][SPARKR] Added parameter drop to subsetting operator [

Added parameter drop to subsetting operator [. This is useful to get a Column from a DataFrame, given its name. R supports it.

In R:
```
> name <- "Sepal_Length"
> class(iris[, name])
[1] "numeric"
```
Currently, in SparkR:
```
> name <- "Sepal_Length"
> class(irisDF[, name])
[1] "DataFrame"
```

Previous code returns a DataFrame, which is inconsistent with R's behavior. SparkR should return a Column instead. Currently, in order for the user to return a Column given a column name as a character variable would be through `eval(parse(x))`, where x is the string `"irisDF$Sepal_Length"`. That itself is pretty hacky. `SparkR:::getColumn() `is another choice, but I don't see why this method should be externalized. Instead, following R's way to do things, the proposed implementation allows this:

```
> name <- "Sepal_Length"
> class(irisDF[, name, drop=T])
[1] "Column"

> class(irisDF[, name, drop=F])
[1] "DataFrame"
```

This is consistent with R:

```
> name <- "Sepal_Length"
> class(iris[, name])
[1] "numeric"
> class(iris[, name, drop=F])
[1] "data.frame"
```

Author: Oscar D. Lara Yejas <odlaraye@oscars-mbp.usca.ibm.com>
Author: Oscar D. Lara Yejas <odlaraye@oscars-mbp.attlocal.net>

Closes #11318 from olarayej/SPARK-13436.