[SPARK-3032][Shuffle] Fix key comparison integer overflow introduced sorting exception

Previous key comparison in `ExternalSorter` will get wrong sorting result or exception when key comparison overflows, details can be seen in [SPARK-3032](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-3032

). Here fix this and add a unit test to prove it.

Author: jerryshao <saisai.shao@intel.com>

Closes #2514 from jerryshao/SPARK-3032 and squashes the following commits:

6f3c302 [jerryshao] Improve the unit test according to comments
01911e6 [jerryshao] Change the test to show the contract violate exception
83acb38 [jerryshao] Minor changes according to comments
fa2a08f [jerryshao] Fix key comparison integer overflow introduced sorting exception

(cherry picked from commit dab1b0ae)
Signed-off-by: Matei Zaharia <matei@databricks.com>