[MINOR][ML] Fix some PySpark & SparkR flaky tests

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?
Some PySpark & SparkR tests run with tiny dataset and tiny ```maxIter```, which means they are not converged. I don’t think checking intermediate result during iteration make sense, and these intermediate result may vulnerable and not stable, so we should switch to check the converged result. We hit this issue at #17746 when we upgrade breeze to 0.13.1.

## How was this patch tested?
Existing tests.

Author: Yanbo Liang <ybliang8@gmail.com>

Closes #17757 from yanboliang/flaky-test.