[SPARK-18856][SQL] non-empty partitioned table should not report zero size

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

In `DataSource`, if the table is not analyzed, we will use 0 as the default value for table size. This is dangerous, we may broadcast a large table and cause OOM. We should use `defaultSizeInBytes` instead.

## How was this patch tested?

new regression test

Author: Wenchen Fan <wenchen@databricks.com>

Closes #16280 from cloud-fan/bug.