[SPARK-20125][SQL] Dataset of type option of map does not work

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

When we build the deserializer expression for map type, we will use `StaticInvoke` to call `ArrayBasedMapData.toScalaMap`, and declare the return type as `scala.collection.immutable.Map`. If the map is inside an Option, we will wrap this `StaticInvoke` with `WrapOption`, which requires the input to be `scala.collect.Map`. Ideally this should be fine, as `scala.collection.immutable.Map` extends `scala.collect.Map`, but our `ObjectType` is too strict about this, this PR fixes it.

## How was this patch tested?

new regression test

Author: Wenchen Fan <wenchen@databricks.com>

Closes #17454 from cloud-fan/map.