[SPARK-17507][ML][MLLIB] check weight vector size in ANN

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

as the TODO described,
check weight vector size and if wrong throw exception.

## How was this patch tested?

existing tests.

Author: WeichenXu <WeichenXu123@outlook.com>

Closes #15060 from WeichenXu123/check_input_weight_size_of_ann.