[SPARK-19843][SQL] UTF8String => (int / long) conversion expensive for invalid inputs

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Jira : https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-19843

Created wrapper classes (`IntWrapper`, `LongWrapper`) to wrap the result of parsing (which are primitive types). In case of problem in parsing, the method would return a boolean.

## How was this patch tested?

- Added new unit tests
- Ran a prod job which had conversion from string -> int and verified the outputs

## Performance

Tiny regression when all strings are valid integers

```
conversion to int:       Best/Avg Time(ms)    Rate(M/s)   Per Row(ns)   Relative
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
trunk                         502 /  522         33.4          29.9       1.0X
SPARK-19843                   493 /  503         34.0          29.4       1.0X
```

Huge gain when all strings are invalid integers
```
conversion to int:      Best/Avg Time(ms)    Rate(M/s)   Per Row(ns)   Relative
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
trunk                     33913 / 34219          0.5        2021.4       1.0X
SPARK-19843                  154 /  162        108.8           9.2     220.0X
```

Author: Tejas Patil <tejasp@fb.com>

Closes #17184 from tejasapatil/SPARK-19843_is_numeric_maybe.