[SPARK-11863][SQL] Unable to resolve order by if it contains mixture of aliases and real columns

this is based on https://github.com/apache/spark/pull/9844, with some bug fix and clean up.

The problems is that, normal operator should be resolved based on its child, but `Sort` operator can also be resolved based on its grandchild. So we have 3 rules that can resolve `Sort`: `ResolveReferences`, `ResolveSortReferences`(if grandchild is `Project`) and `ResolveAggregateFunctions`(if grandchild is `Aggregate`).
For example, `select c1 as a , c2 as b from tab group by c1, c2 order by a, c2`, we need to resolve `a` and `c2` for `Sort`. Firstly `a` will be resolved in `ResolveReferences` based on its child, and when we reach `ResolveAggregateFunctions`, we will try to resolve both `a` and `c2` based on its grandchild, but failed because `a` is not a legal aggregate expression.

whoever merge this PR, please give the credit to dilipbiswal

Author: Dilip Biswal <dbiswal@us.ibm.com>
Author: Wenchen Fan <wenchen@databricks.com>

Closes #9961 from cloud-fan/sort.