[SPARK-21042][SQL] Document Dataset.union is resolution by position

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?
Document Dataset.union is resolution by position, not by name, since this has been a confusing point for a lot of users.

## How was this patch tested?
N/A - doc only change.

Author: Reynold Xin <rxin@databricks.com>

Closes #18256 from rxin/SPARK-21042.