[SPARK-14931][ML][PYTHON] Mismatched default values between pipelines in Spark and PySpark - update

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This PR is an update for [https://github.com/apache/spark/pull/12738] which:
* Adds a generic unit test for JavaParams wrappers in pyspark.ml for checking default Param values vs. the defaults in the Scala side
* Various fixes for bugs found
  * This includes changing classes taking weightCol to treat unset and empty String Param values the same way.

Defaults changed:
* Scala
 * LogisticRegression: weightCol defaults to not set (instead of empty string)
 * StringIndexer: labels default to not set (instead of empty array)
 * GeneralizedLinearRegression:
   * maxIter always defaults to 25 (simpler than defaulting to 25 for a particular solver)
   * weightCol defaults to not set (instead of empty string)
 * LinearRegression: weightCol defaults to not set (instead of empty string)
* Python
 * MultilayerPerceptron: layers default to not set (instead of [1,1])
 * ChiSqSelector: numTopFeatures defaults to 50 (instead of not set)

## How was this patch tested?

Generic unit test.  Manually tested that unit test by changing defaults and verifying that broke the test.

Author: Joseph K. Bradley <joseph@databricks.com>
Author: yinxusen <yinxusen@gmail.com>

Closes #12816 from jkbradley/yinxusen-SPARK-14931.