[SPARK-20232][PYTHON] Improve combineByKey docs

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Improve combineByKey documentation:

* Add note on memory allocation
* Change example code to use different mergeValue and mergeCombiners

## How was this patch tested?

Doctest.

## Legal

This is my original work and I license the work to the project under the project’s open source license.

Author: David Gingrich <david@textio.com>

Closes #17545 from dgingrich/topic-spark-20232-combinebykey-docs.