[SPARK-17279][SQL] better error message for exceptions during ScalaUDF execution

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

If `ScalaUDF` throws exceptions during executing user code, sometimes it's hard for users to figure out what's wrong, especially when they use Spark shell. An example
```
org.apache.spark.SparkException: Job aborted due to stage failure: Task 12 in stage 325.0 failed 4 times, most recent failure: Lost task 12.3 in stage 325.0 (TID 35622, 10.0.207.202): java.lang.NullPointerException
	at line8414e872fb8b42aba390efc153d1611a12.$read$$iwC$$iwC$$iwC$$iwC$$anonfun$2.apply(<console>:40)
	at line8414e872fb8b42aba390efc153d1611a12.$read$$iwC$$iwC$$iwC$$iwC$$anonfun$2.apply(<console>:40)
	at org.apache.spark.sql.catalyst.expressions.GeneratedClass$GeneratedIterator.processNext(Unknown Source)
...
```
We should catch these exceptions and rethrow them with better error message, to say that the exception is happened in scala udf.

This PR also does some clean up for `ScalaUDF` and add a unit test suite for it.

## How was this patch tested?

the new test suite

Author: Wenchen Fan <wenchen@databricks.com>

Closes #14850 from cloud-fan/npe.