[SPARK-16968] Add additional options in jdbc when creating a new table

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

In the PR, we just allow the user to add additional options when create a new table in JDBC writer.
The options can be table_options or partition_options.
E.g., "CREATE TABLE t (name string) ENGINE=InnoDB DEFAULT CHARSET=utf8"

Here is the usage example:
```
df.write.option("createTableOptions", "ENGINE=InnoDB DEFAULT CHARSET=utf8").jdbc(...)
```
## How was this patch tested?

(Please explain how this patch was tested. E.g. unit tests, integration tests, manual tests)
will apply test result soon.

Author: GraceH <93113783@qq.com>

Closes #14559 from GraceH/jdbc_options.