[SPARK-19239][PYSPARK] Check parameters whether equals None when specify the column in jdbc API

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

The `jdbc` API do not check the `lowerBound` and `upperBound` when we
specified the ``column``, and just throw the following exception:

>```int() argument must be a string or a number, not 'NoneType'```

If we check the parameter, we can give a more friendly suggestion.

## How was this patch tested?
Test using the pyspark shell, without the lowerBound and upperBound parameters.

Author: DjvuLee <lihu@bytedance.com>

Closes #16599 from djvulee/pysparkFix.