[SPARK-4355][MLLIB] fix OnlineSummarizer.merge when other.mean is zero

See inline comment about the bug. I also did some code clean-up. dbtsai I moved `update` to a private method of `MultivariateOnlineSummarizer`. I don't think it will cause performance regression, but it would be great if you have some time to test.

Author: Xiangrui Meng <meng@databricks.com>

Closes #3220 from mengxr/SPARK-4355 and squashes the following commits:

5ef601f [Xiangrui Meng] fix OnlineSummarizer.merge when other.mean is zero and some code clean-up