[SPARK-3788] [yarn] Fix compareFs to do the right thing for HDFS namespaces.

HA and viewfs use namespaces instead of host names, so you can't
resolve them since that will fail. So be smarter to avoid doing
unnecessary work.

Author: Marcelo Vanzin <vanzin@cloudera.com>

Closes #2649 from vanzin/SPARK-3788 and squashes the following commits:

fedbc73 [Marcelo Vanzin] Update comment.
c938845 [Marcelo Vanzin] Use Objects.equal() to avoid issues with ==.
9f7b571 [Marcelo Vanzin] [SPARK-3788] [yarn] Fix compareFs to do the right thing for HA, federation.