SPARK-2791: Fix committing, reverting and state tracking in shuffle file consolidation

All changes from this PR are by mridulm and are drawn from his work in #1609. This patch is intended to fix all major issues related to shuffle file consolidation that mridulm found, while minimizing changes to the code, with the hope that it may be more easily merged into 1.1.

This patch is **not** intended as a replacement for #1609, which provides many additional benefits, including fixes to ExternalAppendOnlyMap, improvements to DiskBlockObjectWriter's API, and several new unit tests.

If it is feasible to merge #1609 for the 1.1 deadline, that is a preferable option.

Author: Aaron Davidson <aaron@databricks.com>

Closes #1678 from aarondav/consol and squashes the following commits:

53b3f6d [Aaron Davidson] Correct behavior when writing unopened file
701d045 [Aaron Davidson] Rebase with sort-based shuffle
9160149 [Aaron Davidson] SPARK-2532: Minimal shuffle consolidation fixes