[SPARK-19246][SQL] CataLogTable's partitionSchema order and exist check

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

CataLogTable's partitionSchema should check if each column name in partitionColumnNames must match one and only one field in schema, if not we should throw an exception

and CataLogTable's partitionSchema should keep order with partitionColumnNames

## How was this patch tested?
N/A

Author: windpiger <songjun@outlook.com>

Closes #16606 from windpiger/checkPartionColNameWithSchema.