[SPARK-18379][SQL] Make the parallelism of parallelPartitionDiscovery configurable.

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

The largest parallelism in PartitioningAwareFileIndex #listLeafFilesInParallel() is 10000 in hard code. We may need to make this number configurable. And in PR, I reduce it to 100.

## How was this patch tested?

Existing ut.

Author: genmao.ygm <genmao.ygm@genmaoygmdeMacBook-Air.local>
Author: dylon <hustyugm@gmail.com>

Closes #15829 from uncleGen/SPARK-18379.