[SPARK-17808][PYSPARK] Upgraded version of Pyrolite to 4.13

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?
Upgraded to a newer version of Pyrolite which supports serialization of a BinaryType StructField for PySpark.SQL

## How was this patch tested?
Added a unit test which fails with a raised ValueError when using the previous version of Pyrolite 4.9 and Python3

Author: Bryan Cutler <cutlerb@gmail.com>

Closes #15386 from BryanCutler/pyrolite-upgrade-SPARK-17808.