[SPARK-14130][SQL] Throw exceptions for ALTER TABLE ADD/REPLACE/CHANGE COLUMN,...

[SPARK-14130][SQL] Throw exceptions for ALTER TABLE ADD/REPLACE/CHANGE COLUMN, ALTER TABLE SET FILEFORMAT, DFS, and transaction related commands

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?
This PR will make Spark SQL not allow ALTER TABLE ADD/REPLACE/CHANGE COLUMN, ALTER TABLE SET FILEFORMAT, DFS, and transaction related commands.

## How was this patch tested?
Existing tests. For those tests that I put in the blacklist, I am adding the useful parts back to SQLQuerySuite.

Author: Yin Huai <yhuai@databricks.com>

Closes #12714 from yhuai/banNativeCommand.