[SPARK-13389][SPARKR] SparkR support first/last with ignore NAs

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

SparkR support first/last with ignore NAs

cc sun-rui felixcheung shivaram

## How was the this patch tested?

unit tests

Author: Yanbo Liang <ybliang8@gmail.com>

Closes #11267 from yanboliang/spark-13389.