[SPARK-13227] Risky apply() in OpenHashMap

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-13227

It might confuse the future developers when they use OpenHashMap.apply() with a numeric value type.

null.asInstance[Int], null.asInstance[Long], null.asInstace[Float] and null.asInstance[Double] will return 0/0.0/0L, which might confuse the developer if the value set contains 0/0.0/0L with an existing key

The current patch only adds the comments describing the issue, with the respect to apply the minimum changes to the code base

The more direct, yet more aggressive, approach is use Option as the return type

andrewor14  JoshRosen  any thoughts about how to avoid the potential issue?

Author: CodingCat <zhunansjtu@gmail.com>

Closes #11107 from CodingCat/SPARK-13227.