[SPARK-8890] [SQL] Fallback on sorting when writing many dynamic partitions

Previously, we would open a new file for each new dynamic written out using `HadoopFsRelation`.  For formats like parquet this is very costly due to the buffers required to get good compression.  In this PR I refactor the code allowing us to fall back on an external sort when many partitions are seen.  As such each task will open no more than `spark.sql.sources.maxFiles` files.  I also did the following cleanup:

 - Instead of keying the file HashMap on an expensive to compute string representation of the partition, we now use a fairly cheap UnsafeProjection that avoids heap allocations.
 - The control flow for instantiating and invoking a writer container has been simplified.  Now instead of switching in two places based on the use of partitioning, the specific writer container must implement a single method `writeRows` that is invoked using `runJob`.
 - `InternalOutputWriter` has been removed.  Instead we have a `private[sql]` method `writeInternal` that converts and calls the public method.  This method can be overridden by internal datasources to avoid the conversion.  This change remove a lot of code duplication and per-row `asInstanceOf` checks.
 - `commands.scala` has been split up.

Author: Michael Armbrust <michael@databricks.com>

Closes #8010 from marmbrus/fsWriting and squashes the following commits:

00804fe [Michael Armbrust] use shuffleMemoryManager.pageSizeBytes
775cc49 [Michael Armbrust] Merge remote-tracking branch 'origin/master' into fsWriting
17b690e [Michael Armbrust] remove comment
40f0372 [Michael Armbrust] address comments
f5675bd [Michael Armbrust] char -> string
7e2d0a4 [Michael Armbrust] make sure we close current writer
8100100 [Michael Armbrust] delete empty commands.scala
71cc717 [Michael Armbrust] update comment
8ec75ac [Michael Armbrust] [SPARK-8890][SQL] Fallback on sorting when writing many dynamic partitions