[SPARK-11647] Attempt to reduce time/flakiness of Thriftserver CLI and SparkSubmit tests

This patch aims to reduce the test time and flakiness of HiveSparkSubmitSuite, SparkSubmitSuite, and CliSuite.

Key changes:

- Disable IO synchronization calls for Derby writes, since durability doesn't matter for tests. This was done for HiveCompatibilitySuite in #6651 and resulted in huge test speedups.
- Add a few missing `--conf`s to disable various Spark UIs. The CliSuite, in particular, never disabled these UIs, leaving it prone to port-contention-related flakiness.
- Fix two instances where tests defined `beforeAll()` methods which were never called because the appropriate traits were not mixed in. I updated these tests suites to extend `BeforeAndAfterEach` so that they play nicely with our `ResetSystemProperties` trait.

Author: Josh Rosen <joshrosen@databricks.com>

Closes #9623 from JoshRosen/SPARK-11647.