[SPARK-14275][SQL] Reimplement TypedAggregateExpression to DeclarativeAggregate

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

`ExpressionEncoder` is just a container for serialization and deserialization expressions, we can use these expressions to build `TypedAggregateExpression` directly, so that it can fit in `DeclarativeAggregate`, which is more efficient.

One trick is, for each buffer serializer expression, it will reference to the result object of serialization and function call. To avoid re-calculating this result object, we can serialize the buffer object to a single struct field, so that we can use a special `Expression` to only evaluate result object once.

## How was this patch tested?

existing tests

Author: Wenchen Fan <wenchen@databricks.com>

Closes #12067 from cloud-fan/typed_udaf.