[SPARK-18326][SPARKR][ML] Review SparkR ML wrappers API for 2.1

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?
Reviewing SparkR ML wrappers API for 2.1 release, mainly two issues:
* Remove ```probabilityCol``` from the argument list of ```spark.logit``` and ```spark.randomForest```. Since it was used when making prediction and should be an argument of ```predict```, and we will work on this at [SPARK-18618](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-18618

) in the next release cycle.
* Fix ```spark.als``` params to make it consistent with MLlib.

## How was this patch tested?
Existing tests.

Author: Yanbo Liang <ybliang8@gmail.com>

Closes #16169 from yanboliang/spark-18326.

(cherry picked from commit 97255497)
Signed-off-by: Yanbo Liang <ybliang8@gmail.com>