i don't think this should be merged until after 1.3.0 is final

Author: cody koeninger <cody@koeninger.org>
Author: Helena Edelson <helena.edelson@datastax.com>

Closes #4537 from koeninger/wip-2808-kafka-0.8.2-upgrade and squashes the following commits:

803aa2c [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] code cleanup per TD
e6dfaf6 [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] pointless whitespace change to trigger jenkins again
1770abc [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] make waitUntilLeaderOffset easier to call, call it from python tests as well
d4267e9 [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] fix stderr redirect in python test script
30d991d [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] remove stderr prints since it breaks python 3 syntax
1d896e2 [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] add even even more logging to python test
4c4557f [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] add even more logging to python test
115aeee [cody koeninger] Merge branch 'master' into wip-2808-kafka-0.8.2-upgrade
2712649 [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] add more logging to python test, see why its timing out in jenkins
2b92d3f [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] wait for leader offsets in the java test as well
3824ce3 [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] naming / comments per tdas
61b3464 [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] delay for second send in boundary condition test
af6f3ec [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] delay test until latest leader offset matches expected value
9edab4c [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] more shots in the dark on jenkins failing test
c70ee43 [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] add more asserts to test, try to figure out why it fails on jenkins but not locally
1d10751 [cody koeninger] Merge branch 'master' into wip-2808-kafka-0.8.2-upgrade
ed02d2c [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] move default argument for api version to overloaded method, for binary compat
407382e [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] update kafka to 0.8.2.1
77de6c2 [cody koeninger] Merge branch 'master' into wip-2808-kafka-0.8.2-upgrade
6953429 [cody koeninger] [SPARK-2808][Streaming][Kafka] update kafka to 0.8.2
2e67c66 [Helena Edelson] #SPARK-2808 Update to Kafka 0.8.2.0 GA from beta.
d9dc2bc [Helena Edelson] Merge remote-tracking branch 'upstream/master' into wip-2808-kafka-0.8.2-upgrade
e768164 [Helena Edelson] #2808 update kafka to version 0.8.2