There's a lot of duplication between SortShuffleManager and UnsafeShuffleManager. Given that these now provide the same set of functionality, now that UnsafeShuffleManager supports large records, I think that we should replace SortShuffleManager's serialized shuffle implementation with UnsafeShuffleManager's and should merge the two managers together.

Author: Josh Rosen <joshrosen@databricks.com>

Closes #8829 from JoshRosen/consolidate-sort-shuffle-implementations.