- Look for JARs in the right place
- Launch examples the same way as on Unix
- Load datanucleus JARs if they exist
- Don't attempt to parse local paths as URIs in SparkSubmit, since paths with C:\ are not valid URIs
- Also fixed POM exclusion rules for datanucleus (it wasn't properly excluding it, whereas SBT was)

Author: Matei Zaharia <matei@databricks.com>

Closes #819 from mateiz/win-fixes and squashes the following commits:

d558f96 [Matei Zaharia] Fix comment
228577b [Matei Zaharia] Review comments
d3b71c7 [Matei Zaharia] Properly exclude datanucleus files in Maven assembly
144af84 [Matei Zaharia] Update Windows scripts to match latest binary package layout

(cherry picked from commit 7b70a707)
Signed-off-by: Tathagata Das <tathagata.das1565@gmail.com>