[SPARK-23383][BUILD][MINOR] Make a distribution should exit with usage while detecting wrong options

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?
```shell
./dev/make-distribution.sh --name ne-1.0.0-SNAPSHOT xyz --tgz  -Phadoop-2.7
+++ dirname ./dev/make-distribution.sh
++ cd ./dev/..
++ pwd
+ SPARK_HOME=/Users/Kent/Documents/spark
+ DISTDIR=/Users/Kent/Documents/spark/dist
+ MAKE_TGZ=false
+ MAKE_PIP=false
+ MAKE_R=false
+ NAME=none
+ MVN=/Users/Kent/Documents/spark/build/mvn
+ ((  5  ))
+ case $1 in
+ NAME=ne-1.0.0-SNAPSHOT
+ shift
+ shift
+ ((  3  ))
+ case $1 in
+ break
+ '[' -z /Users/Kent/.jenv/candidates/java/current ']'
+ '[' -z /Users/Kent/.jenv/candidates/java/current ']'
++ command -v git
+ '[' /usr/local/bin/git ']'
++ git rev-parse --short HEAD
+ GITREV=98ea6a7
+ '[' '!' -z 98ea6a7 ']'
+ GITREVSTRING=' (git revision 98ea6a7)'
+ unset GITREV
++ command -v /Users/Kent/Documents/spark/build/mvn
+ '[' '!' /Users/Kent/Documents/spark/build/mvn ']'
++ /Users/Kent/Documents/spark/build/mvn help:evaluate -Dexpression=project.version xyz --tgz -Phadoop-2.7
++ grep -v INFO
++ tail -n 1
+ VERSION=' -X,--debug                             Produce execution debug output'
```
It is better to declare the mistakes and exit with usage than `break`

## How was this patch tested?

manually

cc srowen

Author: Kent Yao <yaooqinn@hotmail.com>

Closes #20571 from yaooqinn/SPARK-23383.