[SPARK-20383][SQL] Supporting Create [temporary] Function with the keyword 'OR REPLACE' and 'IF NOT EXISTS'

## What changes were proposed in this pull request?

support to create [temporary] function with the keyword 'OR REPLACE' and 'IF NOT EXISTS'

## How was this patch tested?
manual test and added test cases

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Author: ouyangxiaochen <ou.yangxiaochen@zte.com.cn>

Closes #17681 from ouyangxiaochen/spark-419.