In case of take() or exception in Python, python worker may exit before JVM read() all the response, then the write thread may raise "Connection reset" exception.

Python should always wait JVM to close the socket first.

cc JoshRosen This is a warm fix, or the tests will be flaky, sorry for that.

Author: Davies Liu <davies@databricks.com>

Closes #2941 from davies/fix_exit and squashes the following commits:

9d4d21e [Davies Liu] fix race