[SPARK-11756][SPARKR] Fix use of aliases - SparkR can not output help information for SparkR:::summary correctly

Fix use of aliases and changes uses of rdname and seealso
`aliases` is the hint for `?` - it should not be linked to some other name - those should be seealso
https://cran.r-project.org/web/packages/roxygen2/vignettes/rd.html

Clean up usage on family, as multiple use of family with the same rdname is causing duplicated See Also html blocks (like http://spark.apache.org/docs/latest/api/R/count.html)
Also changing some rdname for dplyr-like variant for better R user visibility in R doc, eg. rbind, summary, mutate, summarize

shivaram yanboliang

Author: felixcheung <felixcheung_m@hotmail.com>

Closes #9750 from felixcheung/rdocaliases.