Remove spark-tag's compile-scope dependency (and, indirectly, spark-core's compile-scope transitive-dependency) on scalatest by splitting test-oriented tags into spark-tags' test JAR.

Alternative to #16303.

Author: Ryan Williams <ryan.blake.williams@gmail.com>

Closes #16311 from ryan-williams/tt.

(cherry picked from commit afd9bc1d)
Signed-off-by: Marcelo Vanzin <vanzin@cloudera.com>